Your Relationship Garden: What Kind of Cultivator Are You?
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No.1/6
When you meet someone new, how do you usually start 'planting the seeds' of a connection?
Observe quietly, waiting for the perfect moment to engage.
Jump right in with friendly conversation and shared interests.
Ask thoughtful questions to understand their 'soil' and potential.
Focus on shared activities, letting connection grow naturally through doing.
No.2/6
Your relationships are growing! How do you ensure they receive enough 'sunlight and water'?
Consistent check-ins and thoughtful messages.
Planning fun activities and adventures together.
Deep conversations and emotional support.
Being there practically, offering help when needed.
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No.3/6
Uh oh, a 'weed' (disagreement) pops up! How do you approach clearing it from your relationship garden?
Address it directly but gently, focusing on finding common ground.
Try to smooth things over quickly, prioritizing harmony.
Take time to reflect, then discuss thoughtfully after cooling down.
Sometimes let small weeds be, hoping they'll wilt on their own.
No.4/6
To keep your garden healthy, sometimes 'pruning' is necessary. How do you decide what needs to be 'trimmed' or changed in a relationship?
Based on personal energy levels and what feels draining.
When the relationship no longer feels mutually beneficial or joyous.
After open and honest discussions about evolving needs.
When the 'plant' (person) clearly needs space to grow in a different direction.
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No.5/6
Your relationship garden is flourishing! How do you typically 'share your harvest' (joy and support) with others?
Being a reliable listener and offering practical advice.
Celebrating their successes enthusiastically and openly.
Providing a safe space for vulnerability and deep connection.
Organizing gatherings and creating shared positive experiences.
No.6/6
If your relationships were a garden, what kind of overall 'landscape' would you prefer?
A diverse botanical garden, with many unique and interesting varieties.
A vibrant, communal garden where everyone contributes and shares.
A serene, private zen garden, with a few carefully cultivated, deep connections.
A wild, sprawling meadow, with connections popping up spontaneously.
